I am a scared and confused mom today.

Why?

Because I have two daughters and I am scared for them. As I don’t understand- Why they blame only girls for everything? She is always blamed at every stage of her life, as a child, as a young girl, as a wife or as a mom.

She is a girl, it’s her fault.

She wanted to go to school and study, it’s her fault.

She wanted to go to college and study further, it’s her fault.

She has some plans with friends, it’s her fault.

She wanted to go out at night, it’s her fault.

She wanted to go out with her friends at night, it’s her fault.

She wanted to enjoy with her friends, it’s her fault.

She wanted to go out alone, it’s her fault.

She wanted to go out for a party, it’s her fault.

She was wearing a short dress, it’s her fault.

She didn’t want her brother or husband to drop her, it’s her fault.

She said NO to that guy, it’s her fault.

She didn’t agree to go out with that guy, it’s her fault.

She didn’t get married to the boy her parents chose for her, it’s her fault.

She wanted to marry a boy of her choice, it’s her fault.

She wanted to work after marriage, it’s her fault.

She got a better job than her husband, it’s her fault.

She got a better salary package than her husband, it’s her fault.

She is not happy in her marriage, it’s her fault.

She is in an abusive marriage for many years, it’s her fault.

She got divorced finally, it’s her fault.

WHY? WHY? WHY?

Is there any answer to this question?

WHY ARE GIRLS BLAMED FOR EVERYTHING?

 

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