If you judge other people, You have no time to love them- Mother Teresa.
I am a mom and I know how people judge us and it’s sad to see mothers judging other mothers too.
First of all, pregnancy and child birth is not an easy process. A big salute to all the moms for their courage and strength for bringing a new life into this world.
DON’T JUDGE HER AS SHE WAS GOING THROUGH A LOT AT THAT TIME.
Moms have to leave the kids and join their work after few months. It is very hard for moms to leave a child in a day care or with a nanny. They are always guilty conscious about it but they have to take this decision for many reasons.
DON’T JUDGE HER AS THIS IS HARDER FOR A MOM THAN ANYBODY ELSE.
Moms are strict with their kids or yell at them. She also breaks down in between when nothing is going fine.
DON’T JUDGE HER AS IT’S ALL OVERWHELMING FOR HER AND SHE LOSES HER PATIENCE TOO AT TIMES.
They are judged for their child’s behaviour and all positives and negatives. If a child is doing well, nobody says anything but people are always ready to pin point the negative things.
DON’T JUDGE HER AS SHE HAS TO HANDLE MANY PEOPLE AND THEIR COMMENTS NOT ONLY AT HOME BUT OUTSIDE TOO.
If a mom leaves her job for her kids, she is judged for not following her career and in the eyes of others, she is ‘Just a mom’.
DON’T JUDGE HER FOR LEAVING HER JOB AS HER KIDS ARE HER PRIORITY THAN HER JOB OR CAREER.
It’s a moms fault if a child is a picky eater and is weak. Nobody sees how much she tries to feed her fussy eater and how many different things she tries with them.
DON’T JUDGE HER AS SHE ALSO WANTS HER CHILD TO EAT HEALTHY AND STAY HEALTHY.
Sometimes a mom goes out with friends for shopping or for a movie. She also likes to spend some alone time.
DON’T JUDGE HER AS SHE ALSO NEEDS A BREAK.
This Independence Day, let’s all pledge not to judge a mom for anything she does or doesn’t do, because whatever she does, it is best for her child.
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We need freedom from being judged as motherhood should be celebrated and not judged.
Do you think others judge moms?
Do you think whatever we moms do, it’s not right in the eyes of our elder ones?
Don’t you think a mom knows the best for her child?
How do you deal with the judgment and criticism?
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