If something is meant to be, It will happen. In the right time, with the right person and for the best reasons.
“Look at the picture“- My mom said.
Picture? Who is he and Why are you showing me his picture? And What are you thinking mom? I remember asking my mom all these questions in one go.
“They are coming to see you in few days so we also need your photograph to take it forward.” My mom announced.
I was in my final year of masters and as there were no talks of marriage at home, I was quite surprised at the sudden announcement by my mom.
I believe that arranged marriage is not the proclamation it once was. It has advanced and evolved over the years into a meeting of mutual consent between both sides but the problem was that I was not ready at that time.
I still remember that awkward first meeting in which only he was talking and I was just listening and nodding my head. After few days, and an approval from their side, I was still afraid of the full situation as for me studies were more important. I was really hovering in between resentment and apprehension after that.
“Why are you so confused? He is a good boy with a good job and we also know the family.” Asked my mom.
“I want to meet him again“, I announced it to her.
At that moment only my studies were my priority. I thought of talking to my mom. So, I decided to meet him again to ask him few questions. Also, deciding my whole life on the basis of only one meeting seemed unfair to me.
A second meeting was scheduled and we met at one of my relatives house and I geared up for the awkwardness again.
“I want to finish my Post graduation without any problem and hope you will let me do that.” I blurted out as soon as he sat.
Much to my surprise, he looked at me and started laughing. And I looked at him with confusion. He finally told me that when I asked for a second meeting, he and his family thought there was something really urgent which I want to share with him.
“I thought you have someone else in your life and you wanted to share it with me. I have no problem as far as your studies are concerned. In fact, I want you to finish them and take your time. I am not in any hurry and will never stop you from pursuing further studies even after marriage.” He was talking and I was just looking at him, listening to him with amazement.
The prospects for the evening began to look up. Perhaps it would not be as difficult as I had thought. He was really concerned about my feelings and I was moved by his thoughtfulness and concern.
We married after few months of this meeting and now it’s been a wonderful journey of 15 years. The best part in our marriage is that he believes in me when I tend to doubt myself and love me for what I am.
So, this was my story of finding Mr. Right after being confused and hesitant. But now after 15 years of marriage, I see it differently altogether and as they say, the rest is history. 🙂
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December 9, 2016 at 12:35 pm
Aweee..How warm Deepa. I was in a similar land 13 years back with the only twist that I didnt want to study further. Education had ruined me enough – LOL
December 9, 2016 at 4:08 pm
Haha..Thanks for reading Mandavi 🙂
December 9, 2016 at 1:18 pm
This is such a sweet & nostalgic post
December 9, 2016 at 4:09 pm
Thanks Mayura 🙂
December 9, 2016 at 1:41 pm
How lovely! Mine was arranged though I met him once before they sent the proposal. Lots of love and happy anniversary to both of you!
December 9, 2016 at 4:09 pm
Thanks Pushpanjalee 🙂
December 9, 2016 at 1:43 pm
God Bless you both Deepa always.
December 9, 2016 at 4:10 pm
Thanks a lot Manisha 🙂
December 9, 2016 at 2:28 pm
This is such a sweet story, Deepa. And you both made the right choice. Cheers to your relationship!
December 9, 2016 at 4:10 pm
Thanks a lot Mayuri 🙂
December 9, 2016 at 3:33 pm
your post reminded me of my first meeting with my husband though it was little different. …..I did most of the talking…… cute post . all the best to u both.
December 9, 2016 at 4:11 pm
Thanks Milan 🙂
December 9, 2016 at 6:47 pm
Such beautifully you described. I loved it. Keep it up ! ?
December 9, 2016 at 10:38 pm
Thanks Shalini for stopping by 🙂
December 9, 2016 at 8:19 pm
Aww… thats really so sweet and similar to my story! 🙂
December 9, 2016 at 10:37 pm
Thanks Shalini 🙂
December 9, 2016 at 9:01 pm
Wow loved it
December 9, 2016 at 10:38 pm
Thanks Monika 🙂
December 10, 2016 at 12:09 am
perfect match is it , you both are made for each other , very heart touching & lovable story you have
December 10, 2016 at 12:16 am
Thanks a lot for reading Bushra 🙂
December 10, 2016 at 12:19 am
Love or arranged I believe marriages are fixed in heaven.Your story is so romantic and heartfelt .
I can imagine your confusion and the courage you needed to clarify matters with your husband to be.Online shaadi portals if properly used can be a great help for busy adults.
December 10, 2016 at 12:43 am
Yes..there were many other things too in our story which proves that marriages are fixed in heaven. Thanks a lot Amrita 🙂
December 10, 2016 at 8:35 am
I always had a cold feet towards arranged marriage and finally fell in love with a beautiful lady but loved reading your life story
December 11, 2016 at 7:53 pm
Lovely, wishing you both many more years of happiness. It’s wonderful that you found your Mr.Right so easily.
December 11, 2016 at 8:33 pm
Thanks a lot 🙂
December 12, 2016 at 8:45 am
Beautiful nostalgic piece. Love it.
December 12, 2016 at 8:57 am
Thanks Neel for stopping by 🙂
December 12, 2016 at 5:04 pm
Awww now that’s sweet story. How wonderful to have met an understanding partner like that! 😀
December 12, 2016 at 9:36 pm
Thanks Rajlakshmi 🙂