Arjun was standing in a corner and sobbing. Meeta and Sunil were having an argument again. Every day he would see his parents fighting over something or the other.
He was tired of this and wanted to run away. He told them that it’s so much better when they get along, but neither of them put in effort and result was divorce.
Today on a village tour, he saw a broken house which reminded him of his ‘BROKEN HOME’. He didn’t want to remember anything from those days but memories of past always haunt him at unexpected times and places.
Do you know your little one is going to hear everything when you are fighting? Do you know how badly it can affect the kids?
I am sure you will all agree that it’s not a great experience for a kid. Especially when you have memories of your own parents fighting, you might sympathise with the feelings of your child when the situation is tense.
Parents should keep these points in mind before they argue in front of their kids-
- Kids are never too small to understand that their parents are fighting. Do not think that your toddler is not going to understand anything as they are small. There are chances that he might not remember anything later but all these fights and arguments can leave a mark on him.
- Take responsibility of your actions in front of the kids by apologising to your partner. Kids follow by example and you will see them following you by taking responsibility in front of their friends.
- Talk to each other whenever there is a problem. If there are any major decisions to be taken, it’s important to sit and discuss instead of arguing over it later in front of kids. Discuss all the possible ways to handle a situation to avoid an argument later.
- If you see that kids are upset due to an argument or a fight, make them understand that no family is perfect. Arguments happen but with love and understanding families can solve any problem.
This is written for #FridayFotofiction 100 words fiction by Mayuri and Tina.
November 12, 2016 at 10:41 am
I loved how you highlighted this serious topic.It’s important to avoid unpleasant shouting in front of children. A little diagreement is normal for developing coping mechanism.
November 12, 2016 at 12:42 pm
Thanks a lot Amrita..this is the first thing which came to my mind when I saw this house and just wrote about it.
November 12, 2016 at 1:13 pm
Deepa fantastic !! I have no other words.. Broken homes is painful.. Parents fights and arguements have a lot of effect…
November 12, 2016 at 1:22 pm
Thanks a lot Manisha ..yes all the fights and arguments really affects kids.
November 12, 2016 at 7:53 pm
Well said, Deepa! Broken homes, broken relationships can hurt so much and for a child it is a hurt that lasts a lifetime.
November 12, 2016 at 10:48 pm
Thanks a lot for Shilpa 🙂
November 15, 2016 at 2:00 pm
Broken homes are bad for children emotionally and psychologically. Wonderfully done Deepa.
November 15, 2016 at 2:37 pm
Thanks a lot Tina 🙂
November 16, 2016 at 12:05 pm
Earlier when my Kid was an infant, we did fight and argued in front of him. I regret but now we both take good care of this and avoid the situations.Thanks for reminding.
November 16, 2016 at 12:22 pm
Sometimes we all do it but it’s always better to avoid it in front of kids. Thanks a lot Upasna.
November 21, 2016 at 12:19 pm
When I started reading this I thought it would only be a short fiction but the way you highlighted the whole plot with your insight made this more engaging and worth reading. Wonderfully penned, Deepa!
November 21, 2016 at 12:45 pm
Thanks a lot Saumy..glad you like it 🙂
November 21, 2016 at 3:08 pm
It was lovely how you smoothly intertwined memories of that which Arjun experienced and what he saw. My heart goes out to such kids, and you’ve brought out their pain so well.
Lovely writing, Deepa
November 21, 2016 at 3:35 pm
Thanks Mayuri..glad you liked it 🙂