A picture is worth a thousand words but the memories are priceless.
Sometimes we see people who remind us of our loved ones and it makes us sad, sometimes it makes us happy and sometimes it make us thankful towards them. My experience has been that it’s not just people that bring back old memories but it can be anything like a particular place or may be a song.
Even though my mom is not here with me anymore, there are so many things which remind me of her. One such thing is my relationship with my daughters who remind me of her and all her teachings every day in one way or the other. I think it kind of makes sense to enjoy our loved one’s qualities wherever we can find them. Old memories are never easy to deal with and everyday there is usually something that triggers a strong memory.
There are so many things which my daughters do every day and remind me of my mom, especially when they both fight. Me and my sister are just one year apart and were like twins, and I really wonder – How my mom used to do it with all the housework and a full time job and especially at the time when there was not much help available?
As they say, “By the time a woman understands her mother was right, she already has a daughter who thinks she is wrong.”
I will never be able to repay her for all the things she did for me, or for all the things she taught me. I never imagined, though, that I could continue to learn from her every day, even though she is not here with me anymore. Now I sometimes wish I could just turn back time to be a child and hug my mom again.
Linking it to Indispire Edition 137 #PhotoMemory
Also This post is for Day 4 of UBC and Daily Chatter
October 5, 2016 at 12:48 am
What a lovely tribute! I especially enjoyed the quote about the timing on figuring out that your mom was right– Spot on!
October 5, 2016 at 12:51 am
Thanks a lot Susan for stopping by..glad you liked it 🙂
October 5, 2016 at 1:58 am
I had tears in my eyes reading the quote.Being a mother makes you realize a lot if things that nothing else can.Your daughters obviously have a very smart mommy
October 5, 2016 at 9:03 am
It is a touchy point for me..miss my parents as they are not with me anymore..Thanks for stopping by Amrita 🙂
October 5, 2016 at 7:14 am
Deepa, You are absolutely right.Memories are never easy to deal with. It was a very emotional read. As the saying goes, By the time a woman understands her mother was right, she already has a daughter who thinks she is wrong, It is so apt. Me, living these days find it really tough to cope up. A salute to all the moms having tolerated us!
October 5, 2016 at 9:04 am
Yup..all moms deserve a big salute..thanks for stopping by Rajashree 🙂
October 5, 2016 at 11:24 am
There are so many things that could trigger thought from your memory. Photos play a major role. we keep revisiting those moments through these still images.
October 5, 2016 at 12:21 pm
Yes Anil..photos take us back to our comfort zone and to a place which we all love..Thanks for reading 🙂
October 5, 2016 at 11:35 am
It’s so true that our parents define us and no matter how unique we grow into, there are some lessons that keep popping in our ears from time and time. It’s invaluable.
October 5, 2016 at 12:22 pm
Yes Vishal..its a unique bond which s always there ..thanks for reading 🙂
October 5, 2016 at 11:51 am
Being a mother is the only way you understand what your mother went through to have you. Beautifully penned Deepa.
October 5, 2016 at 12:23 pm
Thanks for stopping by Rashmi ..glad you liked it 🙂
October 5, 2016 at 3:05 pm
Such memories are truly priceless
October 5, 2016 at 3:46 pm
Thanks for stopping by 🙂
October 5, 2016 at 4:37 pm
This memory is priceless..
October 5, 2016 at 10:28 pm
Yes Manisha these are ..thanks for reading 🙂
October 6, 2016 at 8:47 am
Memories and mums are so closely related. Almost everything I do for/with my children remind me of my mum. And it is completely involuntary – sometimes I’m not even aware of the fact that she’s in my thoughts, that I’m doing things exactly the way she did. That bond is special.
October 6, 2016 at 9:04 am
Agree..thanks for stopping by 🙂
October 6, 2016 at 9:09 pm
In our society the Moms have always been the unsung heroes. Thank god that the world is changing now . Be it Mom or Dad every moment spent with them is a learning. More power to you
October 6, 2016 at 9:32 pm
Agree with you ..Thanks for stopping by Anindya 🙂