In a shocking incident, a 10-month-old girl was allegedly beaten up and kicked at a creche in Navi Mumbai’s Kharghar by a caretaker, who along with the daycare centre owner has been arrested, police said today.– NDTV India.
Last week we all woke up to the news of a day-care in Mumbai. When I watched that video clip, my heart went out to the baby and her parents. And, this raises many questions about the quality of child care facilities in our country.
A few years ago, I took this decision of not leaving my kids with a caretaker or in a day-care as I didn’t have any help at home. But I was able to take this decision as my husband is very supportive and I didn’t have to work out of economic necessity.
But I understand that sometimes the only option is to leave them in the day-care or with a caretaker. And while most day-cares may paint a pretty picture, it is very important to do some good and serious research.
First of all, do make a list of all the points according to your needs and requirements to decide good childcare –
- How old is the child?
- How many hours and for how many days you need child care?
- Do you also need a food facility?
- How much distance is ok?
How to decide good childcare for your child?
- Judge the atmosphere– When you go to a day-care, try to judge its surroundings. It should be a comfortable place for your kid where they feel secure and happy. And it should have that homely feeling attached to it. Also, it should be clean and should have a good stock of toys and books.
- Staff and caretakers– Do inquire about all the caretakers as ultimately they will be responsible for taking care of your child. Do ask for a list of all the members with their phone numbers. And do not hesitate to ask if the same staff is going to consistently take care of your child or it will keep changing.
- Food and drink- Do check the kitchen and dining area too to see how and where the meals provided to kids are coming from. It’s important that meals and snacks are healthy and appropriate for the kids who are served.
- Surprise checks– Do try to visit the day-care at different times of the day to get an idea of how the staff interacts with the children and how is everything else taken care of. Once you are confident of one centre, go ahead and enroll your child.
- Proper research- Try taking references from other parents as this can help you to decide good childcare. And also check online resources to find out more information about them.
Prompt for Week 3-
“10 months old baby thrashed by a caretaker in Navi Mumbai.”
Share your thoughts about this incident.
What does u think can be done to improve the safety of daycares? or what do you think about daycares of today?
This post has been written for #MondayMommyMoments
If you are wondering what is #MondayMommyMoments, it is a blog hop for all things related to motherhood. We will give you a prompt and if you write a post, link up to the linky here or at my Co-hosts. Share with us your love, hurt, and growth as a mom. In other words, everything related to motherhood.
November 28, 2016 at 9:51 am
The video clip in fact left me feeling vexed and worried. Though my children have outgrown the age, I still can feel how- mothers, those working and would want to leave their children somewhere, would feel. There really needs some action that is practical and would let children be safe.
November 28, 2016 at 10:05 am
Yes agree with you and I can’t imagine the situation of parents after watching that video clip. We need a solution for all moms out there who are sending their kids to a creche or a day care. Thanks Menaka .
November 28, 2016 at 12:33 pm
I am lucky I had my parents to look after my kids. It’s such a shame that these days we hand over our children to total strangers.
November 28, 2016 at 12:56 pm
Yes Suzy ..We can’t trust anybody these days. Our kids are our main responsibility and its best to have parents or some kind of help to take care of our kids. But sadly, its not possible every time. So if we are sending kids to a creche, its important to check it properly. Thanks for dropping by 🙂
November 28, 2016 at 3:42 pm
Makes me shudder! Thankfully I have my mom and mil to support me.Else I don’t know if I would have been able to continue with my career.
November 28, 2016 at 6:36 pm
I know Subha..it’s not easy at all. Good to know that you have help at home. Thanks a lot for stopping by 🙂
November 28, 2016 at 5:51 pm
It’s quite tricky, having to leave your child at daycare. Yet sometimes there isn’t much choice. Incidents like these are alarming, and I imagine it makes the decision even harder, doesn’t it?
November 28, 2016 at 6:38 pm
Yes Jini ..incidents like these make it more difficult for moms. Luckily there are good centers with CCTV cameras now. Thanks for dropping by 🙂
November 28, 2016 at 6:53 pm
This story was so horrible that I an having nightmares about it.
The Navi Mumbai incident is a horror beyond imagination.
I only have prayers.
November 28, 2016 at 7:29 pm
Yes Amrita ..it is a horrible incident and very hard for parents. I hope we all find some solution for all this soon.thanks a lot for writing for #MondayMommyMotivation 🙂
November 30, 2016 at 2:53 am
Watched it in the news…no words to condemn such acts!
I had my mother to look after my son, thankfully.
November 30, 2016 at 7:50 am
Yes Maniparana..a horrible incident and something which makes us think about safety of our kids. Thanks a lot for dropping by 🙂
December 1, 2016 at 2:56 pm
This is too scary. And I’m lucky to have my mom for raising my son when I was working. Valid and very useful pointers, Deepa !!!
December 1, 2016 at 3:03 pm
This incident has raised many questions about daycare safety and security for our kids. Thanks a lot Vasantha for reading 🙂
December 2, 2016 at 2:31 pm
A same incident happened in Guwahati in August when the childcare abducted the kid and demanded ranson from the parents. But thanks to Guwahati Police, the child was rescued within 24 hours.
It is horrifying to think about the innocent children who are harmed by the childcare be at home or at creache. You have raised valid points Deepa. Along with the govt, we parents are needed to be alert regarding those daycares
December 2, 2016 at 2:41 pm
Oh..didn’t know about it. That’s so sad and scary. Agree with you that parents need to be vigilant too when it comes to their child’s safety and security. Thanks a lot Pushpanjalee 🙂