It is the season of joy, festivities, and fun. It seems as if Diwali approached really fast this year. There are so many things that need to be planned before Diwali and I feel completely unprepared this time. It is my favourite festival and no other festival has the same charm. The shopping, gifts, decorations, sweets, and feasts make it all worthwhile.
A few days back I heard a small boy asking his mom a lot of questions about Diwali and I thought to myself, “Do we teach our kids the significance of festivals?” or “ Isn’t it necessary to teach our kids the actual story behind the festivals?”
Here is a list of few questions which kids commonly ask or this is a list which can help you to get an idea on how to explain it to kids. Older Kids might know some of it but it’s always better to explain the relevance to younger kids.
- Why should we clean the house on Diwali?
We clean the house/office, to welcome Goddess Lakshmi and we also throw away all that is not welcome at our home. With dust and all the unwanted stuff, we make sure to make our house clean and fresh. Diwali is the time when we let go of everything that went bad to make a fresh start.
- Why do we decorate our house with lights/ diyas on Diwali?
Diwali is a celebration of Lord Ram returning back to his home and as everyone was happy, the whole kingdom celebrated with him. Lights and diyas are a way to welcome everyone.
- Why do people light diya in front of their houses even when they are not there?
Decorating our home and lighting Diyas even when we are not there is important. When there is light everywhere, why should we leave our house dark? It is a family member too. So, by lighting a diya or switching on the lights for some time, we are including our house in the Diwali celebrations too.
- Why do we exchange gifts on Diwali?
They asked this just out of curiosity as we all know that kids love receiving gifts. I told them that we exchange gifts to show our friends and family that we care for them and love them. It is a way to show your love for others.
- Why do we eat/make sweets on Diwali?
As a Dietician, I have this habit of instructing my family about what to eat and what not to eat. So, they were fast to ask me this question as they know too many sweets is not good. I told them it’s ok to indulge in sweets and feasts once in a while. As it’s Diwali, it’s the perfect reason to celebrate. Celebrations are a time to feast but in a moderation.
Diwali is a festival which is celebrated in different ways in different parts of our country. We all might celebrate it differently but it is one festival which we all love.
This Diwali, let’s involve our younger ones and also have fun with them. Why not become a child like them and build beautiful memories?
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October 6, 2017 at 3:42 pm
This is the best way to teach children all about the wonderful Diwali traditions.Loved this.
October 6, 2017 at 9:02 pm
Thanks Amrita
October 6, 2017 at 3:59 pm
Kids are very curious and it is indeed a good practice to tell them the significance of each festival and share our religious beliefs and stories with them. Diwali is the biggest festival of the year and the excitement around it is palpable. Good post, Deepa. 🙂
October 6, 2017 at 9:03 pm
Thanks Varsh..Glad you liked it.
October 6, 2017 at 4:42 pm
Its important that we teach our children about our culture and heritage. I am going to do it when Bluey is a few years older to understand these, very nice post Deepa. Thanks for the kind words.
October 6, 2017 at 9:04 pm
Thanks Tina. Glad you liked it.
October 6, 2017 at 5:21 pm
Gud points for kids to know …..one more point to b included is why do we light crackers
October 6, 2017 at 9:06 pm
oh yes, may be they didn’t ask because they love lighting crackers. 😀
October 6, 2017 at 5:24 pm
Simple and straight. Though I still am few years away from these questions 😛 my princess is just 7 months now. Indeed these days kids know very less about mythology and festivals and traditions. Lovely post. 🙂
October 6, 2017 at 9:07 pm
Thank you..Glad you liked it.
October 6, 2017 at 8:45 pm
Really enjoyed reading this Deepa…and good ways to teach kids about Diwali:)
October 6, 2017 at 9:10 pm
Thanks Z
October 6, 2017 at 9:51 pm
You have put forth the answers in such a simple and easy way, which is great, as the kids will understand easily.
October 6, 2017 at 10:21 pm
Thanks Sapna for stopping by.
October 7, 2017 at 1:16 am
thanks for explaining each point so wonderfully. yes! kids always had their curiosity and surprising questions about any celebration, you had made our path little easier.
October 7, 2017 at 5:21 pm
Thanks Surbhi
October 7, 2017 at 6:14 am
I agree the stories behind festivals should be relayed so that the festival has meaning for all. Nice one.
October 7, 2017 at 5:22 pm
Thanks Suzy
October 7, 2017 at 6:33 am
While raising my son, I learned that if I wanted to learn something new, go to the children’s section of the library and find a simple, uncomplicated explanation. As someone looking at your culture from outside, I enjoyed your explanation for the same reason – it was simple, and gave me a good introduction.
October 7, 2017 at 5:23 pm
Thanks Alana..glad you liked it.
October 7, 2017 at 7:19 am
Hey Deepa, you have answered such basic questions with so much ease. You are a perfect mom?
October 7, 2017 at 5:24 pm
Thanks Geethica
October 7, 2017 at 7:20 am
You have perfectly answered all the basic questions. A prefect mom has all the answered
October 7, 2017 at 7:47 am
I didn’t think we exchanged gifts on Diwali…don’t remember doing that at all. Is that a new thing? The others all sound familiar. I haven’t celebrated Diwali for 12 years now {since I moved out of home} but I have some nice memories of it…most around food! 😀
October 7, 2017 at 5:24 pm
Thanks Sanch
October 7, 2017 at 1:53 pm
simple and crisp! loved it..!
October 7, 2017 at 5:21 pm
Thanks
October 9, 2017 at 3:25 pm
How very well explained the essence of festivals among kids. Including them in all activities not only help then understand the need of it but also make them realize the importance of working in team. Lovely post.
October 9, 2017 at 3:54 pm
Thanks Dipika. Glad you liked it.
October 9, 2017 at 4:28 pm
My daughter also asking questions about how any why related to Diwali. As she growing day by day she wants to know everything . I like today’s generation kids really they are always so eager to know everything around them. That’s good. Very beautifully you explained all this. Very informative. Will share same with my daughter.
October 9, 2017 at 8:06 pm
Thanks Minakshi
October 9, 2017 at 11:34 pm
A simple yet effective way of explaining things. Yes, we need to make our younger generations aware of the significance of all our festivals and rituals if we are to maintain our identity.
October 10, 2017 at 10:46 am
Thanks Geeta
October 10, 2017 at 1:47 pm
Wonderful and a very meaningful post Deepa. I have got these values as my mother used to ensure that we follow certain traditions in a particular way and she also taught everything. So I completely agree with you that teaching our kids and passing on the traditions and significance of festival is important.
October 11, 2017 at 9:00 am
Thanks Rakhi..glad you liked it.
October 10, 2017 at 5:21 pm
Nice read. Happy Deepawali
October 11, 2017 at 9:01 am
Thanks Sushma for stopping by
October 11, 2017 at 12:27 pm
Such lovely thoughts in teaching kids 🙂 each aspect of Diwali. Totally remember how my parents made me understand when I was a kid 🙂
October 11, 2017 at 1:30 pm
Thanks Yogita
December 20, 2017 at 1:40 pm
So very true, Deepa. Kids learn from what we do. And answering even the silliest of their doubts without ever losing composure is the best way to educate them about life rather than ‘teaching & preaching’ our customs to them.
December 20, 2017 at 2:35 pm
Thanks Ashvini for stopping by. Glad you liked it.
August 28, 2018 at 5:56 pm
Nice post, Light sparklers are very interactive. Kids Love to see. But we should use them with proper care. Thanks for sharing!!